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Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Eulogy For Mother At A Time Of Great Sadness And Heartbreak

By Jesper Carsen


Only the brave and the strong can stand up and give a Eulogy for Mother when they are devastated by her passing. Being able to put one's grieve aside and stand up to make this heartbreaking tribute may be difficult but if filled with good happy memories and cherished times it may be the start of the healing process for the speaker.

Each and every person deals with grief in a different way. The grieving and healing process is a journey in itself.

If one has been fortunate enough to have had their mom with them into their own middle age they will want to celebrate a live that has been blessed. For some the relationship between mommy and children was not a happy one. People who have fond memories of being showered with love by their mom a speech can be built around those special moments shared and forever remembered.

Mothers who have been able to live to a considerable age will have left many happy memories for her children to remember and cherish. It is the mothers who lose their lives due pointless events and have only begun to create memories for their children that are mourned with the greatest sorrow of happenings that will now never happen or be shared.

It is only in adversity that the true character of a person is revealed. As a person travels down the road of life there are many instances of misfortune and devastating events to contend with. A mother's reactions to these times are the ones that will have the most impact on her children. They are the ones that could be mentioned along with a few anecdotes of great joyous occasions.

Mothers are human beings and as such will have had their fair share of faults that together with their good traits will have shaped her into the person she became. In sharing her life in the way her children remember her one will be giving a true rendition of the woman that was called 'my mother'.

Words and deeds are long remembered after people have died. It is those deeds and words that need to be included in a Eulogy for Mother. The good and the bad times reflect on the person as a whole and should be told and remembered with love. For many the reading of a poem is sufficient and there are many of these to be found in books and online. A jumble of words from a long forgotten song that said something about not grieving when standing at the grave as the person was still alive in their loved one's hearts and head comes suddenly to mind.




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